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Grow confident in ALL life situations by uplifting your lifestyle to speak, act & dress ELEGANTLY...

to impress boss and clients at work,

to meet and deepen love relationships,

to raise respectful children,

to be at ease in social gatherings as a guest or a host,

to raise your standards in your lifestyle and feel more CONFIDENT and HAPPY...

Aude de Vathaire

A French aristocrat dedicated to guiding you in embodying elegance in your ACTIONS, SPEECH and ATTIRE, ensuring confidence in EVERY life scenario.

Mother of 4, married for 28 years, I am not a minute-made coach: I have over 12 years' experience as a therapist, business and life coach helping hundreds of senior executives in the Paris region.


Drawing on my extensive life and career experience, family history and proven practical tools, I will help you gain CONFIDENCE, ease and ELEGANCE through the forgotten arts of respect, honor and manners.


My goal is to support you in finding and integrating your unique sense of elegance, to help you live your best life and reach your goals and dreams.

Embodying elegance in real life is VERY different to the flavour of elegance you may see on social media.


Genuine elegance has NO filters, and NO insincerity — it's about clearing your path of self-doubt and uncovering the way to your true unique essense, letting it shine brightly in every aspect of your life!

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