Join this unique 5-Day
FREE Elegance Challenge

The Elegant Woman is Already Inside You.

In this FREE 5-day challenge, you’ll step into confidence, presence, and style that feels like YOU.

No perfection. No pressure.
Just real, heart-led elegance.

What to expect...

For 5 days in a row, starting Monday 23rd of June, you will receive:

✔ An email with one clear, powerful elegance focus per day: designed to help you immediately step into a DEEP heart-centred confidence and elegance that RADIATES throughout your life.

✔ An invitation to a LIVE webinar with me, covering the topic of each day in depth, and answering questions, to personally guide you through the challenge and towards a new, uplifted version of you.

✔ A comprehensive daily downloadable PDF, complete with practical reflection prompts and exercises to help you put elegance into action RIGHT NOW.

When does it begin?

Monday 23th June to Friday 27th June.

When are the live webinars held?

Live calls will be held every day of the challenge at 7pm Paris time (1pm EDT) - with replays available for those unable to join me live.

What will you learn?

Day 1: ELEGANCE on the INSIDE

How to shift your inner state and tap into your own natural elegant energy (no designer bags, stiff rules, or "quiet luxury" outfit change required!).

Day 2: ELEGANCE on the OUTSIDE

How to curate a wardrobe, or adapt what you have, so that it expresses you in a way that is true to your unique essence, but still UPLIFTED, intentional, and ELEGANT.

Day 3: ELEGANCE in your EVERYDAY

Be guided to bring elegance into your day-to-day life and overhaul your ordinary moments through small, easy-to-integrate actions (that transform your routines from mundane to meaningful).

Day 4: ELEGANCE at your TABLE
Learn how you can turn your meals into moments that nourish more than just your body. Whether you’re dining alone or gathered with loved ones, learn to make the table a place where life feels lived, not rushed past

Day 5ELEGANCE in RELATIONSHIPS
Speak your truth with heart & connect deeply with your children, partner, friends, or coworkers. Learn to set powerful, loving boundaries; say “no” with elegance, and let your true self be seen—kind, open, and real, without guilt, without people-pleasing, and without losing your energy.

Aude de Vathaire

Drawing on my extensive life and career experience, traditional French family history and proven practical tools, I am dedicated to guiding women towards elegance in ACTIONS, SPEECH and ATTIRE, to ensure confidence in ALL life scenarios..

Mother of 4, married for over 29 years, I am not a minute-made coach: I have over 15 years' experience as a therapist, business and life coach helping hundreds of senior executives in the Paris region.

Drawing on my extensive life and career experience, family history and proven practical tools, I will help you gain CONFIDENCE, ease and ELEGANCE through the forgotten arts of respect, honor and manners.

My goal is to support you in finding and integrating your own unique sense of elegance, to help you live your best life and reach your goals and dreams.

Embodying elegance in real life is VERY different to the flavour of elegance you may see on social media.

Genuine elegance has no filters, and no insincerity (and doesn't require beige blazers!). It's about clearing your path of self-doubt and uncovering the way to your true unique essence, letting it shine brightly in every aspect of your life!

Aude de Vathaire - Aller à l'Essentiel 2023

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