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Elegance Foundations
with Aude de Vathaire
A foundational elegance program to help you embody lasting confidence, and redefine how you carry yourself in every part of life...
I want you to imagine a deeply elegant, confident version of yourself. Not a person who resembles someone else, but a truer and more refined expression of who you’ve meant to be all along.
Now what if I told you: she's already here.
This isn’t about reinvention or perfection. It’s about a RETURN.
A powerful homecoming to a woman who knows who she is, and lives with elegance, discernment, and fulfilment.
Not self-doubt.
Not shrinking to fit.
Not wearing a life (or a wardrobe) that doesn’t feel like your own.
This one-of-a-kind program is designed guide you to her, through the core foundational principles of true and lasting elegance.
You will learn how to carry yourself, communicate, and dress with elegance: in a way that goes far beyond just etiquette, and reverberates through every area of your life.
Not to impress, but to uncover and EXPRESS the woman you always had the sense was possible.
Confident. Aligned. Undeniably alive.
"You changed my life in the most extraordinarily impactful, fun way!! I am so grateful to have found you! All of your coaching classes uplifted my life in a way I did not know was even possible."
- Client Testimonial
The Elegance Foundations program goes beyond surface-level style or etiquette. It is a holistic journey that transforms the way you think, move, and show up.... not just in the most special moments, but in your day-to-day life.
Through a blend of mindset work, emotional alignment, practical refinement & etiquette, and daily rituals, you’ll learn how to cultivate lasting elegance from the inside out.
The program is structured around three key layers of transformation, teaching you all the foundational building-blocks of lasting elegance, including....
INNER WORK
⚜ Learn the 3-step method to embody elegance through mindset, energy, and movement..
⚜ Release limiting beliefs and cultivate daily emotional alignment
⚜ Build deep, lasting self-confidence through self-awareness and self-compassion
⚜ Learn to approach beauty, aging, and self-expression: feeling good about who you are at every stage
OUTER EXPRESSION
⚜ Be guided to refine your posture, communication, and presence with practical, accessible tools
⚜ Discover the values behind “old money” elegance: like discretion, dignity, and humility.. and insights into aristocratic elegance lessons
⚜ Learn the foundations of true refinement.. without fuss, stiff rules, or having to behave like somebody you are not...
EVERYDAY PRACTICE
⚜ Set clear, kind boundaries & learn to say no elegantly
⚜ Balance feminine softness &masculine clarity for grounded, graceful action
⚜ Elevate your daily routines (from greetings to getting dressed) into intentional rituals
⚜ Navigate relationships and social situations with heart-led strength & emotional elegance
The results speak for themselves...
Here is what my clients have shared about their transformations:
"Elegance is attainable"
"You have made me realize is attainable. And I love that you are providing us with the tools to find our own elegance instead of giving us a ‘recipe’ to copy.”
"It woke me up"
“It woke me up. How I’m living now, is this the life I want to live? Most of the things you’re telling I know deep down, but it is soo good to hear them and start acting and living through that reminder! Sometimes I’m loosing myself in the rush of the day or escape in my mobile phone. But your classes woke me up, so glad that I found you! 🙏🏻”
" An opportunity to receive and to energetically recharge"
I love your work and am so grateful for giving myself the gift of Elegance Foundation. This has been an opportunity to receive and to energetically recharge. It is my intention to have this shift my life into elegance mode, of course coupled with joy in my heart.
" Outstanding sessions resonating with every part of my being"
“The sessions so far have been outstanding and resonating with every part of my being. I play and replay every session and make notes where I need to! Thank you!!”
"Elegance is doable"
“Thank you for teaching us that elegance is doable, that it is possible to implement it in everyday life and thank you for sharing from your heart!”
"Feeling much more confident to do things my way"
“I wanted to tell you - I'm so enjoying the Elegance program, I think that what has been a really important part of your program for me - is just feeling my individuality, and my own creativity and inclinations and feeling much more confident to do things my way.
Thank you!!"
"Love, love, love, this all!"
"Your modesty, kindness, and humanity makes it so nice to listen to your classes! Your not talking from above but as an equal human with up and down days. I love your drive, it looks like you have an urge to tell it. And I love your authenticity!! Love, love, love, this all! Your doing such a good job Aude! I really think that if a lot more people should listen to your classes the world would look a little better. ❣️”
"My husband and adult children have all noticed the changes "
“Thank you for all your input into my life through this course. My awareness has been heightened and I am now more actively acknowledging things in my life to be grateful for. I also look for small ways to bring more beauty and joy into my daily life.
My husband and adult children have all noticed the changes and are very happy about the effect it has had on me by doing your course.
I more willingly give myself permission for self care and accept how important it really is. I look forward to replaying the lessons as I know I will be able to learn more and apply more into my life. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.”
Welcome! I am Aude de Vathaire...
I help women wake up to their true selves - and express it through radiant, embodied elegance carried through every part of life.
I am a mother of four, a new grandmother, a therapist, life, and business coach with over 15 years' experience helping hundreds of senior executives in the Paris region. In the past, I was also an artist and painter, a parenting coach, and a piano teacher.
Drawing on my extensive life and career experience, French high-society family history, and proven practical tools, I will help you gain CONFIDENCE, ease and ELEGANCE through achievable, easy-to-apply tips and practices I have developed, and found to work again and again.
My goal is to support you in finding and integrating elegance and confidence into every facet of your life — whether at work, social gatherings, travelling, and while nurturing your relationships... to help you live your best life, as your best self.
Every woman’s journey to elegance is unique -
select the access tier below that best suits your path.
Elegance Essentials
This option is a beautifully curated starting point, for those ready to anchor their elegance journey in the essential principles without the extras. It includes...
Instant access to the Elegance Foundations program: 5 x foundational elegance classes.
(between 1.5 and 2 hours each)
Instant access to a recorded Q&A session
5 minute full face yoga workshop with Philippa from @luminousfaceyoga
e-Recipe Book: Cake & Biscuits for Tea Time from Ask Charlie How @askcharliehow
€ 197
The Signature Collection
Go beyond the basics. This option includes everything in "Elegance Essentials" to give you the building blocks of elegance, plus extra resources to help you explore, personalise, and embed elegance in your own way.
Access to everything in "Elegance Essentials"
Access to my FULL collection of Elegance Workshops:
Dining etiquette
Discover your outfits & colors
Hair, face & makeup
Summer & travel elegance
Uplift your overall lifestyle
All about Christmas
Invitation to a LIVE Q&A session for additional guidance & support (to be held the week of July 14-18)
€ 347
Elegance Immersion
A high-touch, personalised path for those desiring tailored guidance and a supported transformation.
Includes everything in "Elegance Essentials" and "The Signature Collection", PLUS these bespoke bonuses, designed for deeper, more personalised support...
4 live group coaching calls (1 per week) starting the week of July 14-18.
Access to a private WhatsApp group for ongoing connection
Limited offer: Be among the first 10 to register and receive a private coaching session with me to help you integrate the teachings with tailored guidance.
€ 697
Payment plans available for your convenience & flexibility.
Frequently Asked Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
✤ What makes this program so successful?
This program is entirely unique on the market for a number of reasons.
1. Firstly, you receive real insight into the principles, tools and "rules" from French high society, which is my family background. Unlike other etiquette coaches, I can reveal what is REALLY shared in aristocratic families from the inside - things most etiquette advisors are unaware of.
2. I have 25 years of experience in personal development, and over 15 years of professional practice as a therapist and life coach. I have PROVEN experience helping people gain true ease and confidence. My sweet spot of expertise is to help my clients step into the potential of who they really are.
3. I am able to share from a deep well of wisdom and life experience: as a woman married for over 28 years, as a mother of 4, as someone who has been through tough times too - I have lived a life and learned many lessons that enrich my teachings.
Finally, I always teach at three levels: the strategy (how to DO it concretely), the mindset (the thoughts underpinning the process), and the energy (embodying the lifestyle and elegance you desire, aligning it with who you are deeply).
In this program, you will not only be taught the principles, but are given CONCRETE tools to help you in real life on a daily basis. As a result, what you learn with me will serve you from now, into the future… that is the ripple effect of this program.
We are here for deep transformational benefits, not just a surface-level quick fix!
✤ I'm very busy. What if I don't have time to do the course now?
That’s ultimately up to you. My recommendation is if you give yourself 5 weeks, you will walk away with a completely new perspective on elegance, and with refreshed inspiration and ideas to practice.
And if 5 weeks feels overwhelming to add to your existing “to-do” list, then I’m here to reassure you that this program is the ANTIDOTE to overwhelm.
It’s designed to take you by the hand to find more ease, confidence and joy everyday to uplift your lifestyle - not to make life harder!
All tiers have access to this course for at least one year so you can take it at your own pace and revisit classes as needed.
✤ How much time will it take to complete this course?
That’s ultimately up to you. My recommendation is if you give yourself 5 weeks, you will walk away with a completely new perspective on ELEGANCE, and with new inspiration and ideas to practice.
And if 5 weeks feels overwhelming to add to your existing “to-do” list, then I’m here to reassure you that this program is the ANTIDOTE to overwhelm. It’s designed to take you by the hand to find more ease, confidence and joy everyday to uplift your lifestyle - not to make life harder!
✤ I have no elegance experience, will this program work for me?
In this class you will learn..
• How to let your personality and creativity glow elegantly.
• How to give yourself PERMISSION to uplift your lifestyle.
• Your style: how to define attract the right outfits FOR YOU.
✤ I already consider myself elegant, will this program work for me?
Due to the uniqueness of this program mixing concrete tools & deep, heart-centred principles to help you gain confidence and ease in all life situations - you will certainly learn a lot if you want to go from "good" to "great".
You will also benefit from the French aristocratic insights that have never been taught in this way, as I am the only one on the market teaching this.
I consider elegance to be your natural essence glowing outwards into the world. It is all about alignment, self-love, embodiment and becoming who you are: for yourself first and for the world around you. This program will give you the keys to manifest a more fulfilling life.
✤ My body isn’t good looking for me now, can I still benefit from the program?
This is a major point that motivated me to create this program. I truly believe that ELEGANCE comes from within, and that you are able, NOW, TODAY, to be ELEGANT with who you are and how you look. Elegance isn’t about being perfect, fitting into a standard box, or trying to be something other than YOU.
I see the natural elegance in my clients that they don’t see - and I am there to help YOU see it, and show you how to feel good rapidly and easily, without waiting for your body to be perfect. You just have to be willing to step into this with an open heart and mind, and you will see transformation before you know it!
✤ Are you offering a payment plan?
YES! You will find the payment options when you click to enroll.
✤ What is your refund policy?
I want to give you a chance to check out my teaching style, in case you are new here. So, if after reviewing the initial content, you feel this is not for you, please send me an email elegance@audedevathaire.com within 15 days after your purchase and I will process your refund.
✤ Can you guarantee specific results?
I love this program, and I fully believe in its principles and teachings. I do my best to deliver the lessons; I do not take things lightly. However, we are co-creators! Your success also depends on your readiness to apply the learnings. As I have no way of knowing what you will do with the program, I cannot guarantee results.
I AM confident in its potential to change your life if you allow it - the client testimonials on this page are from real, live people who went through my program and have seen real results from it.
✤ What if I can't afford this?
If you are on a tight budget, this may not be for you right now. But if you believe this is too expensive, then ask yourself: What is the cost of a pair of shoes, or a beautiful bag?
These things may be satisfying for a couple of days, but then, how are you going to deal with the questions you are asking yourself regularly about your lifestyle and how to be more elegant in the long run? How are you going to feel in front of the mirror tomorrow?
What is the cost of spending another year feeling like you do, buying things you are not really sure about, and not feeling so confident?
Know that as a life coach and an elegance coach, I will give you life-changing principles and processes to help you really shift your perspective, and inspire you for deep transformation. A bag or a pair of shoes can’t do that.
Aude de Vathaire - elegance@audedevathaire.com
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