The Living Elegance Membership

The place that holds you, week after week, as you become your most elegant and confident self.

Where inner work meets outer elegance.

True elegance. From the inside out. Every day.

If elegance & manners matter to you, in a world where respect, being mindful of others, and refined living seem rare, you may want to dive deeper.

Raised in French high society, I inherited a deep understanding of aristocratic etiquette and refined living. I am also a therapist and life coach with fifteen years of experience.

Nobody else is teaching elegance from both of these places at once.

The women who are in my LIVING ELEGANCE Membership, do not just look more elegant. They integrate deeper principles based on heart-led elegance that I teach.

In 2 weeks

You will feel a shift: a new calm, a new sense of yourself that you probably haven't felt in a long time.

"I am now on day 7 of the program. I have definitely seen some shifts in me. I was in town at the weekend and 3 strangers came up to me at various points in the day and complimented me on my outfit which was really uplifting for me.

I also compliment myself in the morning when I am dressed and I can see that I look nice. "



In 3 months

Within three months, people around you will notice your transformation. Strangers will compliment you. Your family, colleagues & friends will see it.

"I never realized how bad I actually felt all the time until I started to feel consistently good. I started with the elegance teachings on dressing and ended up creating peace and beauty in every area of my life. My home is so peaceful. I worry so much less. Everyone can see it and feel it."


In 6 months

Within six months, you will finally feel yourself, feeling uplifted & confident in the way you act, speak and dress because you learned the principles and your environment, your home, will be more beautiful, supporting the woman you truly are. 

"The Elegance membership with Aude has been so worthwhile to me and enriched my life in many ways. The regular talks and coaching calls reinforce the learning. - I can now enjoy family time much more than I did previously. Time with friends is also more enjoyable. Thank you 🙏 ✨🧡"


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  • Feeling at ease in social gatherings and conversations, instead of feeling awkward, holding back, stressed...

  • Happy in front of the mirror, instead of hard on yourself or unworthy...

  • Choosing goals and activities that truly fulfill and replenish you, instead of lack of clarity and purpose, instead of never taking the time for yourself and feeling burnout...

  • Respected, seen, considered by others and cherrished in your relationships, instead of feeling drained, people pleasing, lack of healthy boundaries...

  • An environment (home, office, car...) and rituals (habits, organization, to-dos...) that support you and make you feel you are worth it, instead of navigating your life on auto-pilot without taking a breath...

"I now take pride in my appearance. More importantly, my self-belief has been reignited. I have started writing my book, I am socialising again, and I feel I am returning to the woman I was always meant to be."

"You have made me realize elegance is attainable. And I love that you are providing us with the tools to find our own elegance instead of giving us a “recipe” to copy."

"I've learned a lot through this program about how to quiet my mind and be present with people. This week I felt such joy and confidence in who I am. Being a quiet and shy person, I've learned a great deal from Living Elegance. I'm so thankful."

"I feel much more calm, serene and sophisticated than ever before.  My confidence has gone from 5 to 9 so quickly and with my newly found confidence I know that reaching my future goals and objectives is completely achievable."

"I have learnt so much and I can honestly say that nothing has had such an impact on my life as this course has."

“I really like the balance between archival content and fresh content. I was at the peak of survival mode before joining the membership, and now I’m calmer and more peaceful than I’ve been in years.”

"I used to be quite elegant when I was younger — and then life gets in the way. After loss and grief, I asked myself: what am I going to do with the rest of my life? That is when I decided to join Aude’s work. Since then I have changed significantly. I walk taller. I take my mornings slowly. I dress better. The people around me have noticed." 


Inside Living Elegance, every month:

✦ A new audio teaching every week — 10 minutes of depth and practical wisdom
✦ Two live coaching calls with me — with replays

✦ A resource library of downloadable exercises and rituals
✦ My workshop collection and programs
✦ A private community of women on the same path
✦ New content every single month

The Living Elegance Membership

Join today at the special welcome price

No minimum commitment. Cancel any time.

✤ MONTHLY : €47/month instead of €74 regular price

✤ YEARLY : €470/year instead of €740 regular price

2 months free + the Vortex Program as a gift (value 555€)

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"The topics discussed were exactly what I was needing.  I have so much energy now just knowing new tips and knowing that others are trying to improve the same things I'm working on 🙂" 

"Slowing down is something I need to do.  It is a lifelong project for me somehow.  But your gentle coaching is just what I need and appreciate.  I am so thankful I found you and am truly grateful to be part of the Living Elegance group."

“Dear Aude - I really love everything about this program - it has really made me take a deep long look at myself and put my life into perspective so I cannot choose one thing as it is all so inspiring - I have changed a lot since embarking on this journey especially with the clothes that I now wear - I believe that I have upgraded my life style considerably. “

“Dear Aude, the membership is very meaningful and valuable to me as a whole, and I am truly grateful to you that it is there, available! I have done most of the app content at least once, and my top favourites are always the Uplifts and now also the Clear Path programme. I loved the 21-Day activation and am going to do it again this autumn (at present, I’m reading my notes from it). The coaching calls are super useful and interesting, and the workshop yesterday was great! I found it very useful also as inspiration for how to use the pdf exercises in the app. I’m truly loving being part of the Membership and being able to learn from you. ♥️”

“I thank you from the bottom of my heart for bringing this course to me.  It was nothing short of "incroyable".

“I am really enjoying the membership and I am learning so much, so I would not want my membership cancelled!”

“The calls have the most impact for me. I always look forward to them. They are the perfect mix of your teachings and that wonderful sense of community.

I have grown so much since I started my elegance journey. I am much calmer and feel better about myself.

It is hard to describe the impact you have on my life but joining your program is probably the best investment I ever made.

The weekly uplifts are very helpful and being able to post something in the app and read other women's posts is much more supporting than I imagined.

Thank you! ❤️”

The LIVING ELEGANCE Membership is the place to help you act, speak, dress, and embody YOUR unique elegance, and truly live it every day!

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

How is this different from your workshops or programs?

My workshops are deep dives into one specific topic, and are great resources. My programs (like my most popular offering, the Elegance Foundations Program), are more comprehensive, and are usually delivered over several weeks or months. They can be wonderful starting points, and many women from my programs have experienced incredible results in their life after completing them.

However, based on my own experience when trying to improve my life, and what I have heard from women I've coached, is that change can be very hard to sustain long-term when we have so many things pulling at our energy and attention every day. Many of us "fall off the wagon" and blame it on willpower, or think we are not disciplined enough.

The Living Elegance membership is a mentorship that continues teaching you, supporting and guiding you when you are entering the real world and trying to apply what you have learnt!

It is a place that holds you consistently, week after week, so that change has time to actually take root in your daily life.

The membership is not a course you complete and close. It is a space you come back to — with fresh content every week, live calls every month, and a community of women walking the same path alongside you.

Many of my workshops are already waiting for you inside. So you get the deep dives AND the ongoing container. It is really the best of everything, in one place, at a price that makes it easy to say yes.

Will I have time for this?

The weekly audios will be roughly ten minutes most of the time.

The live calls are twice a month and will go for 60-90 minutes each.

The workshops, programs, and downloadable resources live there for whenever you are ready, though I recommend choosing one area to focus on every month and perhaps spending a little time once per week completing an exercise, sharing in the community if you feel called to, or watching a workshop. While consistency is encouraged and supported, there is no pressure to "keep up"! Only a welcoming place to come back to and be supported.

Is there a minimum commitment?

No, both plans are renew-as-you-go. So, if you join the monthly tier and choose to cancel, you will have access until the end of that month's billing period.

If you join the annual tier and cancel, you will have access for the remainder of the year until the 1 year anniversary of your sign-up.

To cancel your membership, you just write an email and I will stop the payment plan. You have access to the membership for one month after the last payment.

Can I get a refund?

The membership provides access to a large and valuable volume of my workshops and teachings, including downloadable resources for you to keep. If you decide within 14 days of joining that the membership is not for you, please reach out and I will issue your refund. After 14 days no refunds will be granted, however you are welcome to cancel your membership any time to stop future recurring payments.

Aude de Vathaire - elegance@audedevathaire.com

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