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You just asked for the guide : 5 principles of elegant dressing, and you will see how good they are!
Those five principles are just a starting point.
If elegance & manners matter to you, in a world where respect, being mindful of others, and refined living seem rare, you may want dive deeper.
Raised in French high society, I inherited a deep understanding of aristocratic etiquette and refined living. I am also a therapist and life coach with fifteen years of experience.
Nobody else is teaching elegance from both of these places at once.
The women who are in my LIVING ELEGANCE Membership, do not just look more elegant. They integrate deeper principles based on heart-led elegance that I teach.
"I now take pride in my appearance, and even my son has noticed the beautiful dresses and colours I have started to wear. More importantly, my self-belief has been reignited. I have started writing my book, I am socialising again, and I feel I am returning to the woman I was always meant to be."
"You have made me realize elegance is attainable. And I love that you are providing us with the tools to find our own elegance instead of giving us a “recipe” to copy."
"I've learned a lot through this program about how to quiet my mind and be present with people, therefore enjoying them immensely. This is very new for me. This week I felt such joy and confidence in who I am. Being a quiet and shy person, with not well developed interpersonal skills, I've learned a great deal from Living Elegance. It not only helps me, but lifts my family and those I interact with. I'm thankful."
You may want this too:
Feeling at ease in social gatherings and conversations, instead of feeling awkward, holding back, stressed...
Happy in front of the mirror, instead of hard on yourself or unworthy...
Choosing goals and activities that truly fulfill and replenish you, instead of lack of clarity and purpose, instead of never taking the time for yourself and feeling burnout...
Respected, seen, considered by others and cherrished in your relationships, instead of feeling drained, people pleasing, lack of healthy boundaries...
An environment (home, office, car...) and rituals (habits, organization, to-dos...) that support you and make you feel you are worth it, instead of navigating your life on auto-pilot without taking a breath...
True embodied and long lasting elegance
is a way of living and being.
I found that complete elegance lies on three dimensions of your life simultaneously:
✦ Your Essence — This is who you are on the inside. Your beliefs about yourself, your confidence, your self image, the inner relationship you have with yourself, the permission you give yourself to feel alive, to lead your life, to glow who you truly are.
✦ Your Presence — This is how you show up in the world. How you dress, speak, and carry yourself with ease and confidence. The manners and heart led ways of being and doing.
✦ Your Life — This is how your environment supports you day after day. It's about your home, your rituals, your daily habits, your organization to feel uplifted and not overwhelmed.
I created the LIVING ELEGANCE Membership to help you elevate all the spheres of your life and really LIVE elegance in a way that makes you feel ALIVE and ALIGNED with who you are!
And today — because you just arrived in my world — I want to offer you the chance to join at a special price.
The Living Elegance Membership
47€/MONTH instead of 74€ regular price
Special DISCOUNT price TODAY !
"You have transformed my life in ways
I didn't know was possible.."
CLIENT TESTIMONIAL
WHAT'S INCLUDED
Inside Living Elegance
✦ Two live coaching calls with me every month, with replays.
✦ An audio uplift each week.
✦ A resource library of downloadable exercises and rituals for each pillar, with new content added every month.
✦ Access to my signature workshop collection (combined value €555)
✦ My 21-Day Elegance Activation Program (value €555)
✦ A private community of women on the same path
✦ Exclusive member access to my retreats, bonuses, and 1:1 coaching, at member-only rates
✦ Annual Member Free Bonus The Vortex Program (value €555)
"You've helped me to think differently,
to see things more deeply and to feel more alive and happy again."
CLIENT TESTIMONIAL
I grew up watching what real elegance actually looks like.
As a mother of four, a new grandmother, and a therapist, life coach, and elegance mentor with over 15 years of experience, I help others grow into their most confident, elegant selves.
I grew up in traditional French society where elegance was a way of being and living, passed down from one generation to the next.
I absorbed this heart-led elegance without realizing how it had powerfully supported me through the ups and downs of life.
My goal is to support you in finding and integrating elegance and confidence into every facet of your life — whether at work, social gatherings, travelling, and while nurturing your relationships... to help you live your best life, as your best self.
What I discovered in all those years is that women who come to me are not lacking elegance. They just have trouble connecting to themselves to find their answers. Self-doubt, exhaustion, overgiving, people pleasing, unworthiness ... are in the way.
My approach has nothing to do with the elegance you see filtered and curated on social media. Elegance is about adapting to circumstances and in that range of adaptation, it is giving yourself permission to GLOW who you truly are.
It is about clearing what has been covering your true essence — and letting that essence lead, in how you speak, act, dress. In how you show up to your life. In how you feel when you look in the mirror.
That is what Living Elegance Membership is built to hold.
AUDE DE VATHAIRE · FRENCH ELEGANCE MENTOR & COACH · 430,000+ READERS
Elegance is not about a set of rules,
or an outfit, or a type of woman.
It is something you live and EMBODY, from the inside out.
The LIVING ELEGANCE Membership is the place to help you act, speak, dress, and embody YOUR unique elegance, and truly live it every day!
CLIENT TESTIMONIALS
Real women, impactful change
"Thank you for teaching us that elegance is doable, that it is possible to implement it in everyday life and thank you for sharing from your heart!"
"I went through this exercise this week. When I started I thought, 'is this going to be something helpful, really'. But it WAS helpful. It changed the trajectory of my whole week. It was really great. The whole week, my relationships, my activities and work — it all changed for the better. I am thankful."
"I think the biggest shift for me is being able to ground myself even when I am in difficult situations. I can more clearly articulate things I want, and feel a sense of detachment from situations that are emotionally overwhelming. Interestingly I really see the link Aude makes with elegance starting inside. From a place of being more grounded, I can express myself more clearly. Even if that is something other people don't like — I want to be seen for me, not the 'pretend perfect' version of me that's really bottling up a lot of tension inside. Thank you again."
JOIN TODAY WITH A SPECIAL DISCOUNT PRICE !
Choose the rhythm that feels right
I am offering both a monthly and annual option. Cancel any time.
MONTHLY
€47
/ month
Regular price - €74 /month
Your special discount rate, locked for as long as you stay.
✦ Two live coaching calls with me every month, with replays
✦ A weekly audio uplift
✦ Living Elegance Resource Library - Downloadable workbooks, exercises and guides for each Elegant Pillar, added to monthly
✦ Access to my signature workshops (combined value €555)
✦ Access to the 21 Day Elegance Activation Program
✦ A private community of women on the same path
✦ New content each month
✦ Exclusive member access to my retreats, member-only bonuses, and 1:1 coaching, at member-only rates
BEST VALUE · 2 MONTHS FREE
ANNUAL
€470
/ year
Regular price - €740 /year
Your special discount rate, locked for as long as you stay.
Includes everything in monthly, with two months free every year
+ the complete Vortex Program as a gift (value €555)
Everyday elegance and aliveness,
that finally sticks.
We have all been there! Starting this three-week challenge, that six-week course, a January new year resolution...
Maybe you've even read the books, followed the accounts, started the morning routines, added more clothes in your closet, and tried some tips to uplift your lifestyle.
They give you a brief uplift, a finish line, some inspiration, but then you are left on your own... again...
Living Elegance Membership is the opposite of that. It is built to both start you off, and stay alongside you for as long as you need.
This is how you EMBODY real elegance that lasts in the long run.
Two live coaching calls with me every month. An audio uplift each week. My collection of workshops to work through. A library of exercises and guides for whenever you want them. And a community of women on the same path.
This is ongoing support so that this time, change lasts,
and your elegant life is LIVED.
47€/MONTH instead of 74€ regular price
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
How is this different from your workshops or programs?
My workshops are deep dives into one specific topic, and are great resources. My programs (like my most popular offering, the Elegance Foundations Program), are more comprehensive, and are usually delivered over several weeks. They can be wonderful starting points, and many women from my programs have experienced incredible results in their life after completing them.
However, based on my own experience when trying to improve my life, and what I have heard from women I've coached, is that change can be very hard to sustain long-term when we have so many things pulling at our energy and attention every day. Many of us "fall off the wagon" and blame it on willpower, or think we are not disciplined enough.
The Living Elegance membership is a mentorship that continues teaching you, supporting and guiding you when you are entering the real world and trying to apply what you have learnt!
It is a place that holds you consistently, week after week, so that change has time to actually take root in your daily life.
The membership is not a course you complete and close. It is a space you come back to — with fresh content every week, live calls every month, and a community of women walking the same path alongside you.
Many of my workshops are already waiting for you inside. So you get the deep dives AND the ongoing container. It is really the best of everything, in one place, at a price that makes it easy to say yes.
Will I have time for this?
The weekly audios will be roughly five to ten minutes most of the time.
The live calls are twice a month and will go for about 60 minutes each.
The workshops, programs, and downloadable resources live there for whenever you are ready, though I recommend choosing one area to focus on every month and perhaps spending a little time once per week completing an exercise, sharing in the community if you feel called to, or watching a workshop. While consistency is encouraged and supported, there is no pressure to "keep up"! Only a welcoming place to come back to and be supported.
Is there a minimum commitment?
No, both plans are renew-as-you-go. So, if you join the monthly tier and choose to cancel, you will have access until the end of that month's billing period.
If you join the annual tier and cancel, you will have access for the remainder of the year until the 1 year anniversary of your sign-up.
To cancel your membership, you just write an email, elegance@audedevathaire, and I will stop the payment plan. You have access to the membership for one month after the last payment.
Can I get a refund?
The membership provides access to a large and valuable volume of my workshops and teachings, including downloadable resources for you to keep. If you decide within 14 days of joining that the membership is not for you, please reach out and I will issue your refund. After 14 days no refunds will be granted, however you are welcome to cancel your membership any time to stop future recurring payments.
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The Vortex Program remains one of my most popular programs with coaching clients to this day. It is not currently available for standalone purchase, so this is one of the only ways to gain access to this special foundational program.
In it, I help you to feel confident and empowered to create your new lifestyle and understand the law of attraction.
The culmination of 25 years of self-development, this is one of my most life-changing programs that will help you step into your true potential. This is PRICELESS, and all of my coachings stem from this program.
My signature workshop bundle includes 5 'deep-dive' workshops, each covering a different element of elegance. From make-up tips, through to style and etiquette, these enjoyable and fun workshops are fantastic resources to help introduce more embodied elegance into your life.
About the 21 Day Elegance Activation Program:
You know that long-lasting deep change doesn't happen overnight. And you also know that practice on a daily basis is the key to transformation.
This is why I created the 21 Day Elegance Activation Program - 21 days of live recorded videos, roughly half an hour each so you can fit them seamlessly into your daily routine -- designed to help you embody, for 21 days straight, the elegance you desire for your life.
Both practical & spiritual, this program will kickstart you with concrete, tangible results & wisdom to enhance your confidence and mindset over the 21 day practice.