The Living Elegance Membership
Everyday elegance and aliveness, that finally sticks.
We have all been there! Starting this three-week challenge, that six-week course, a January new year resolution...
Maybe you've even read the books, followed the accounts, started the morning routines, added more clothes in your closet, and tried some tips to uplift your lifestyle.
They give you a brief uplift, a finish line, some inspiration, but then you are left on your own... again...
Living Elegance Membership is the opposite of that. It is built to both start you off, and stay alongside you for as long as you need.
This is how you EMBODY real elegance that lasts in the long run.
Two live coaching calls with me every month. An audio uplift each week. My collection of workshops to work through. A library of exercises and guides for whenever you want them. And a community of women on the same path.
This is ongoing support so that this time, change lasts,
and your elegant life is LIVED.
Elegance is not about a set of rules,
or an outfit, or a type of woman.
It is something you live and EMBODY, from the inside out.
Living Elegance is the place to help you act, speak, dress, and embody YOUR unique elegance, and truly live it every day!
WHAT WE WORK ON TOGETHER
— I —
Your Essence
Who you are and how you FEEL
Elegance begins within. Beliefs, self-confidence, the inner relationship with yourself and the permission you give yourself to feel alive.
— II —
Your Presence
How you DRESS, SPEAK, ACT and show up in the world
Posture, communication, personal style, etiquette... all of the the visible manifestations of elegance.
— III —
Your Life
How you LIVE day-to-day, year-by-year
Your home, your rituals, your daily habits. The life that holds you, creating the environment and rythms that support you on your elegance and confidence journey.
"You have transformed my life in ways
I didn't know was possible.."
CLIENT TESTIMONIAL
WHAT'S INCLUDED
Inside Living Elegance
✦ Two live coaching calls with me every month, with replays.
✦ An audio uplift each week.
✦ A resource library of downloadable exercises and rituals for each pillar, with new content added every month.
✦ Access to my full signature workshop collection (combined value €555)
✦ My 21-Day Elegance Activation Program (value €555)
✦ A private community of women on the same path
✦ Exclusive member access to my retreats, member-only bonuses, and 1:1 work, at member-only rates
✦ Annual Member Free Bonus The Vortex Program (value €555)
"You've helped me to think differently,
to see things more deeply and to feel more alive and happy again."
CLIENT TESTIMONIAL
I grew up watching what real elegance actually looks like.
I grew up in traditional French society where elegance was a way of being and living, passed down from one generation to the next.
I watched women who carried something you can FEEL before you can name it. A natural elegance flow. That MAGNETIC EASE that makes you want to embody it, too...
It had little to do with what they wore or how much they knew about etiquette — even though those codes are part of elegance.
It was in how they carried themselves and the way they made YOU feel simply by being near them.
I absorbed this heart-led elegance without realizing how it had powerfully supported me through the ups and downs of life.
As a mother of four, a new grandmother, and a therapist, life coach, and elegance mentor with over 15 years of experience, I help others grow into their most confident, elegant selves.
My goal is to support you in finding and integrating elegance and confidence into every facet of your life — whether at work, social gatherings, travelling, and while nurturing your relationships... to help you live your best life, as your best self.
What I discovered in all those years is that women who come to me are not lacking elegance. They just have trouble connecting to themselves to find their answers. Self-doubt, exhaustion, overgiving, people pleasing, unworthiness ... are in the way.
My approach has nothing to do with the elegance you see filtered and curated on social media. Elegance is about adapting to circumstances and in that range of adaptation, it is giving yourself permission to GLOW who you truly are.
It is about clearing what has been covering your true essence — and letting that essence lead, in how you speak, act, dress. In how you show up to your life. In how you feel when you look in the mirror.
That is what Living Elegance Membership is built to hold.
AUDE DE VATHAIRE · FRENCH ELEGANCE MENTOR & COACH · 433,000+ READERS
CLIENT TESTIMONIALS
Real women I have worked with, who experienced real, impactful change.
"Thank you for teaching us that elegance is doable, that it is possible to implement it in everyday life and thank you for sharing from your heart!"
"You have made me realize elegance is attainable. And I love that you are providing us with the tools to find our own elegance instead of giving us a “recipe” to copy."
"After a few months of coaching, I literally had the feeling that the caterpillar had become a butterfly."
"I now take pride in my appearance, and even my son has noticed the beautiful dresses and colours I have started to wear. More importantly, my self-belief has been reignited. I have started writing my book, I am socialising again, and I feel I am returning to the woman I was always meant to be."
"After a coaching session with Aude, I felt more permission in my life. To just paint, enjoy, which is very much needed while living life. To re-charge, unwind and reset is vital. Aude draws on her experience in therapy, coaching, music, elegance and life to narrow down and focus on the next step."
""I came seeking to understand elegance better, but what I received went far beyond that. You helped me see what I was striving ... what I was seeking for so long—something I hadn’t been able to put into words myself.
Through your help, I was finally able to bring a sense of closure to a deep inner search I’ve been on for a long time. That made the experience truly meaningful and unforgettable.
With gratitude and looking forward to working with you again."
START LIVING ELEGANCE
Choose the rhythm that feels right
I am offering both a monthly and annual option so you have flexibility of choice. Cancel any time. For more details, read my FAQ.
MONTHLY
€74
/ month
Cancel any time.
✦ Two live coaching calls with me every month, with replays
✦ A weekly audio uplift
✦ Living Elegance Resource Library - Downloadable workbooks, exercises and guides for each Elegant Pillar.
✦ Access to my signature workshops (combined value €555)
✦ Access to the 21 Day Elegance Activation Program
✦ A private community of women on the same path
✦ New content each month
✦ Exclusive member access to my retreats, member-only bonuses, and 1:1 coaching, at member-only rates
BEST VALUE · 2 MONTHS FREE
ANNUAL
€740
/ year
1 year's access - Recurs annually - Cancel any time
Includes everything in monthly, with two months free every year
+ the complete Vortex Program as a gift (value €555)
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
How is this different from your one-off workshops or programs?
My workshops are deep dives into one specific topic, and are great resources. My programs (like my most popular offering, the Elegance Foundations Program), are more comprehensive, and are usually delivered over several weeks or months. They can be wonderful starting points, and many women from my programs have experienced incredible results in their life after completing them.
However, based on my own experience when trying to improve my life, and what I have heard from women I've coached, is that change can be very hard to sustain long-term when we have so many things pulling at our energy and attention every day. Many of us "fall off the wagon" and blame it on willpower, or think we are not disciplined enough.
The Living Elegance membership is a mentorship that continues teaching you, supporting and guiding you when you are entering the real world and trying to apply what you have learnt!
It is a place that holds you consistently, week after week, so that change has time to actually take root in your daily life.
The membership is not a course you complete and close. It is a space you come back to — with fresh content every week, live calls every month, and a community of women walking the same path alongside you.
Many of my workshops are already waiting for you inside. So you get the deep dives AND the ongoing container. It is really the best of everything, in one place, at a price that makes it easy to say yes.
Will I have time for this?
The weekly audios will be roughly five to ten minutes most of the time.
The live calls are twice a month and will go for 60-90 minutes each.
The workshops, programs, and downloadable resources live there for whenever you are ready, though I recommend choosing one area to focus on every month and perhaps spending a little time once per week completing an exercise, sharing in the community if you feel called to, or watching a workshop. While consistency is encouraged and supported, there is no pressure to "keep up"! Only a welcoming place to come back to and be supported.
Is there a minimum commitment?
No, both plans are renew-as-you-go. So, if you join the monthly tier and choose to cancel, you will have access until the end of that month's billing period.
If you join the annual tier and cancel, you will have access for the remainder of the year until the 1 year anniversary of your sign-up.
Can I get a refund?
The membership provides access to a large and valuable volume of my workshops and teachings, including downloadable resources for you to keep.
If you decide within 14 daysof joining that the membership is not for you, please reach out and I will issue your refund. After 14 days no refunds will be granted, however you are welcome to cancel your membership any time to stop future recurring payments.
Aude de Vathaire - elegance@audedevathaire.com
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The Vortex Program remains one of my most popular programs with coaching clients to this day. It is not currently available for standalone purchase, so this is one of the only ways to gain access to this special foundational program.
In it, I help you to feel confident and empowered to create your new lifestyle and understand the law of attraction.
The culmination of 25 years of self-development, this is one of my most life-changing programs that will help you step into your true potential. This is PRICELESS, and all of my coachings stem from this program.
My signature workshop bundle includes 5 'deep-dive' workshops, each covering a different element of elegance. From make-up tips, through to style and etiquette, these enjoyable and fun workshops are fantastic resources to help introduce more embodied elegance into your life.
About the 21 Day Elegance Activation Program:
You know that long-lasting deep change doesn't happen overnight. And you also know that practice on a daily basis is the key to transformation.
This is why I created the 21 Day Elegance Activation Program - 21 days of live recorded videos, roughly half an hour each so you can fit them seamlessly into your daily routine -- designed to help you embody, for 21 days straight, the elegance you desire for your life.
Both practical & spiritual, this program will kickstart you with concrete, tangible results & wisdom to enhance your confidence and mindset over the 21 day practice.