ELEGANCE FOUNDATIONS

with Aude de Vathaire

Learn how to ACT, SPEAK and DRESS with ELEGANCE to uplift your lifestyle and confidence.

Be guided by a French Aristocrat through the foundations of true EMBODIED ELEGANCE, and discover etiquette secrets from French high society in this exclusive program.

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Tell me...

Have you always admired elegance from afar, but felt it was somehow out of reach, reserved for other people?

...Maybe it is something you used to feel connected to, but life got in the way, and you don't know how to get back to it without a lot of EFFORT.

Or perhaps you would LOVE to have more elegance in your life, but you think to yourself:

"I don't know where to begin, or what style really suits me..."

"I just don't have the time or energy to start that kind of change..."

"What will people think of me if I switch from leggings and casualwear, to more elevated outfits and new mannerisms?"

"I can't be elegant with my body today... Elegant people don't have a body like mine.."

"Elegance is expensive...I don't have the money for it."

"Do I genuinely deserve to enrich my life in this way, or am I being superficial?"

Don't worry. Believe it or not, I've BEEN in that place before, and my job now is to help make sure people like YOU don't STAY there!

Getting "unstuck" and unlocking your sense of elegance is POSSIBLE and ENJOYABLE.

I can show you how.

Here is what my clients say about the transformation they experienced with my program:

"You have made me realize elegance is attainable. And I love that you are providing us with the tools to find our own elegance instead of giving us a ‘recipe’ to copy.”

“It woke me up. How I’m living now, is this the life I want to live? Most of the things you’re telling I know deep down, but it is soo good to hear them and start acting and living through that reminder! Sometimes I’m loosing myself in the rush of the day or escape in my mobile phone. But your classes woke me up, so glad that I found you! 🙏🏻”

I love your work and am so grateful for giving myself the gift of Elegance Foundation. This has been an opportunity to receive and to energetically recharge. It is my intention to have this shift my life into elegance mode, of course coupled with joy in my heart.

“The sessions so far have been outstanding and resonating with every part of my being. I play and replay every session and make notes where I need to! Thank you!!”

“Thank you for teaching us that elegance is doable, that it is possible to implement it in everyday life and thank you for sharing from your heart!”

“I wanted to tell you - I'm so enjoying the Elegance program, I think that what has been a really important part of your program for me - is just feeling my individuality, and my own creativity and inclinations and feeling much more confident to do things my way.

Thank you!!"

"Your modesty, kindness, and humanity makes it so nice to listen to your classes! Your not talking from above but as an equal human with up and down days. I love your drive, it looks like you have an urge to tell it. And I love your authenticity!! Love, love, love, this all! Your doing such a good job Aude! I really think that if a lot more people should listen to your classes the world would look a little better. ❣️”

“Thank you for all your input into my life through this course. My awareness has been heightened and I am now more actively acknowledging things in my life to be grateful for. I also look for small ways to bring more beauty and joy into my daily life.

My husband and adult children have all noticed the changes and are very happy about the effect it has had on me by doing your course.

I more willingly give myself permission for self care and accept how important it really is. I look forward to replaying the lessons as I know I will be able to learn more and apply more into my life. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.”

Years ago, when I was a young mother with three children (now I have four), my life was falling apart: health, relationships, family bonds, emotions, insecurities, past trauma, stress... I was so far away from where I WANTED to be. But I didn't feel I could CHANGE.

If you're like most of the women I've helped, and like me in the past, you think to yourself:

WHEN I have the energy,
WHEN I heal and recover,
WHEN I have the time,
WHEN I get more lucky,
WHEN my children are a bit older,
WHEN my body meets some critera,
WHEN I take care of my hair,
WHEN I love myself more,
WHEN I feel more CONFIDENT in front of others,
WHEN I know more clearly what I am going to do....

THEN...

I'll take care of myself, wear make up, work-out, invest in programs, put pretty outfits on, arrange my home, be a better mom, pay attention to my lifestyle, stop seeing the world negatively, stop considering myself a victim...

That's what I thought to myself during that difficult time. But I was wrong.

Nothing changed.

I just kept swimming in a sea of everlasting pain and frustration.

I was going about it backwards!

THE DAY I turned things around,

THE DAY I starting implementing the principles of French elegance and personal development,

THE DAY I started to give myself PERMISSION to step into more ELEGANCE, not paying attention to circumstances,

THE DAY I realized that NOW is the only time where CHANGE is POSSIBLE,

......is the day my life began to SHIFT.

And yours can too.

I didn't want to have REGRETS at the end of my life - it goes by so fast.

I realised..

✤ NOW is the ONLY moment I have to be a pretty mother for my children; an elegant woman for my husband, friends, clients and myself..

✤ NOW is the moment for me to CELEBRATE the life which has been given to me to live, no matter what I am going through.

✤ NOW is the moment when I can choose between wearing leggings or a comfortable dress, to choose between feeling GOOD or bad.

✤ NOW is when I can either "bark" at my family from across the house, OR choose to have full eye contact and connect more deeply with my loved ones..

We don't know about tomorrow. We only have TODAY.

NOW is the moment where YOUR power lies to UPLIFT YOUR LIFESTYLE and feel GOOD in a profound, heart-centered way.

So what really unlocked the shift?

What helped me concretely make it happen?

I had to work on the way I viewed the world.

I had patterns, behaviors and beliefs that were not supportive to me. They were not helping me create the life I wanted.

I needed more beauty, elegance, softness, joy, confidence and trust to connect to my worth and feel satisfied by life. I needed to move forward with enthusiasm towards more fulfillment, love and meaning.

So little-by-little, I began connecting with all the principles I had been taught from across generations in my family, all the personal development knowledge I had gained from coaches, therapists, & my studies, all my life experience, all the parts of my artistic background... it all started to come together and held me by the hand to TRANSFORM my life (and the life of my clients these past 15 years).

And do you want to know the best part? It wasn't HARD WORK. I didn't feel like I was moving through quicksand like I had felt when trying to change in the past. It was ENJOYABLE.

Then at some point, I realized I wasn't just going to do this for me.

I was going to do this for all of us.

To teach this, and teach this well, I knew I had to take it much deeper.

So I gathered ALL of my precious knowledge, tools and practices, and turned them into a life-changing program that is totally UNIQUE on the market.

It combines:

ELEGANCE knowledge and principles passed down from my family,
SELF-DEVELOPMENT concepts and tools (I am a therapist and life coach),
Deep heart-centered manners and etiquette from TRADITIONAL FRENCH high society.

By the end of the program, you will feel INSPIRED around elegance, much more CONFIDENT in yourself and your lifestyle - seeing OPPORTUNITIES and OPTIONS around what to wear, and what to do.

More Client Transformations

(this could be you!)

“I took this program because I turned 60 and wanted to intentionally think about building a healthy and successful next twenty years based on the integrated use of my truest self and core competencies...

What I learned during your course is that what you teach is my purest essence and base foundation in life. Your class was very successful for me. I have to say I admire your courage to do this class. Thank you for your effort and time. You have inspired me. I am an executive coach and have run my family's foundation for 17 years. This class will resonate with me as I move forward.”

"I am now allowing myself to look for ways I can bring more beauty into my life. I am also giving myself permission to honour my true self and rediscover who that is."

“Gradually, using better posture, dressing and speaking more mindfully, appreciating using scent, a better outlook all around.”

“Feeling more comfortable in my own body... Helped to deal with others negative behaviour towards me it does not bring me down anymore. Dressing differently, applying makeup again, feeling elevated and elegant.”

“I am better focused on what I want to achieve.”

“The inspiring classes from Aude helped me to find a way to a more friendly, caring, satisfying and whole life. In the rush of life and mobile phone Aude popped suddenly up. Her lovely classes gave me the little push to follow what I always knew but that needed to wake up. I’m really gratefull that I’ve found her.”

“In social situations, I feel more at ease and self-assured.”

“Your work is unique, that it offers simplicity in understanding of our emotions and new ways of being, self development and richness in our thinking, to help us understand a more personal approach to our lives to help us relax into life and cope with better standards for self development. Just so pleased our lives have crossed and at the right time when I had given up hope, I feel richer for having met you 🌸”

“Being part of this program has been a wonderful enlightening experience. Aude de Vathaire radiates a genuine authenticity that is deeply inspiring.”

“I spend time on taking care of myself every day, and pay attention to how I feel about everything I encounter in my life. But maybe more important is that I allow myself to be me.”

The ELEGANCE foundations PROGRAM is the most effective way to act, speak and dress elegantly, so that you feel CONFIDENT in all life situations and UPLIFT your lifestyle significantly!

While I saw results nearly immediately when I began to do this work, everything that I teach in this program CONTINUES to expand and support me EVERY DAY.

I'm confident it will do the same for you.

Embodying elegance in real life is VERY different to the flavour of elegance you may see on social media.

Genuine elegance has NO filters, and NO insincerity — it's about clearing your path of self-doubt and uncovering the way to your true unique essense, letting it shine brightly in every aspect of your life.

Elegance is NOT about trying to change who you are to fit in to a stiff set of standards, which make you feel AWKWARD and UNEASY in the way you carry yourself....or as if you are dressing up as somebody else for Halloween.

Living an elegant life is about giving yourself PERMISSION to GLOW.

Of course you want to adapt to circumstances, but in that range of adaptation, there are thousands of possibilities to truly BE YOU.

If you're like many of the women I've helped, this might sound a little scary! After all, many of us spend YEARS feeling "not good enough", making sure we are HIDING our true selves - not REVEALING them... And you may have absorbed rigid notions about what elegance IS and IS NOT.

FORGET the classic "little black dress" (I don't have one!)...
FORGET neutral outfits in shades of nude, black, and brown, if these don't feel like you..
FORGET about waiting for your dream body shape to come...
FORGET about wearing high heels if you don't feel great in them or they make your feet hurt...
FORGET about trying to be PERFECT.

I want to help you be TRULY ELEGANT, but not in such a way that it seems too far a reach because it's TOO PERFECT - you have a life to LIVE (and perfect is boring)!

You have happy days and sad days.

You have babies in your arms, pets and children to take care of..

You have work, cooking, cleaning, appointments, commuting...

You have relationships to maintain and texts to reply to...

You have sleepless nights and sore feet...

You have tired days and energetic days...

This is real LIFE, not a perfect magazine.

I will help you uplift your REAL life and REAL self:

For the people who SEE you in REAL LIFE;
For your clients and boss;
For your lover;
For your children;
For your guests and friends...
And most importantly: for YOU when you look at yourself in the mirror.

What is included in the program:

✤ Class 1 | Essence of Elegance